A player of Venezuela's Aguilas de Zulia baseball team, wears a green ribbon on his left wrist to show support for Washington Nationals' catcher Wilson Ramos before the start of a match against 'Tiburones de la Guaira' in Caracas, Venezuela, Thursday, Nov. 10, 2011. Ramos who had just finished his rookie season, was at his home entrance in the town of Santa Ines Wednesday night when he was kidnapped by four armed men on a SUV, according to his agent Gustavo Marcano. (AP Photo/Ariana Cubillos)
A player of Venezuela's Aguilas de Zulia baseball team, wears a green ribbon on his left wrist to show support for Washington Nationals' catcher Wilson Ramos before the start of a match against 'Tiburones de la Guaira' in Caracas, Venezuela, Thursday, Nov. 10, 2011. Ramos who had just finished his rookie season, was at his home entrance in the town of Santa Ines Wednesday night when he was kidnapped by four armed men on a SUV, according to his agent Gustavo Marcano. (AP Photo/Ariana Cubillos)
Fans hold candles during a vigil for baseball player Wilson Ramos, catcher of the Washington Nationals, at the entrance of the Jose Bernardo Perez baseball stadium in Valencia, Venezuela, Thursday, Nov. 10, 2011. The 24-year-old player, who had just finished his rookie season, was at his home entrance in the town of Santa Ines Wednesday night, when he was kidnapped by four armed men on a SUV, according to Ramos' agent Gustavo Marcano. (AP Photo/Lexander Loiza)
Fans hold candles during a vigil for baseball player Wilson Ramos, catcher of the Washington Nationals, at the entrance of the Jose Bernardo Perez baseball stadium in Valencia, Venezuela, Thursday, Nov. 10, 2011. Ramos who had just finished his rookie season, was at his home entrance in the town of Santa Ines Wednesday night when he was kidnapped by four armed men on a SUV, according to his agent Gustavo Marcano. (AP Photo/Lexander Loiza)
FILE - In this June 4, 2011, file photo, Washington Nationals' Wilson Ramos looks on during a baseball game against the Arizona Diamondbacks in Phoenix. According to Kathe Vilera, a spokeswoman for Ramos' Venezuelan League team, the Aragua Tigers, four armed men kidnapped Ramos on Wednesday, Nov. 9, 2011, from his home in central Venezuela. (AP Photo/Paul Connors, File)
Fans light candles during a vigil for baseball player Wilson Ramos, catcher of the Washington Nationals, at the entrance of the Jose Bernardo Perez baseball stadium in Valencia, Venezuela, Thursday, Nov. 10, 2011. The 24-year-old player, who had just finished his rookie season, was at his home entrance in the town of Santa Ines Wednesday night, when he was kidnapped by four armed men on a SUV, according to Ramos' agent Gustavo Marcano. (AP Photo/Lexander Loiza)
CARACAS, Venezuela (AP) ? Venezuelan authorities said Friday they are confident they can quickly solve the kidnapping of Washington Nationals catcher Wilson Ramos.
The abduction on Wednesday was the first known kidnapping of a major leaguer in a country that has scores of players on big league rosters, and it has brought a renewed focus on rising violent crime in Venezuela.
Deputy Justice Minister Edwin Rojas said investigators are making progress in gathering evidence and have physical descriptions of the kidnappers based on the accounts of witnesses.
"We have faith in the quick resolution of this case," Rojas told state television. He said President Hugo Chavez's government "is working 24 hours a day to solve this case."
Armed men seized Ramos at gunpoint Wednesday outside his home in a working-class neighborhood in the city of Valencia. Authorities said Thursday that they had found a stolen SUV used by the kidnappers abandoned in a nearby town. Police spread out searching for clues in the area.
Venezuelan security expert Luis Cedeno said Ramos' abductors probably belong to one of the country's highly organized criminal groups that focus on high-profile kidnappings, and are likely to demand a large ransom.
"It's a very sophisticated, well-planned kidnapping," said Cedeno, who leads the Venezuelan organization Paz Activa, which monitors crime issues.
He said judging from previous cases, the ordeal might last months. In one case last year, banker German Garcia Velutini was freed after more than 11 months in captivity, following negotiations and what police said was payment of an unspecified sum.
In such high-profile kidnappings, Cedeno said, the abductors are generally "men who carry out one or two kidnappings a year and they plan it very, very well."
"The motivation is totally economic, so it wouldn't make much sense for them to kill the player," Cedeno said, though he noted that in some cases it has happened.
Neighbors held a candlelight vigil Thursday night outside Ramos' home and prayed for him, as did fans at a baseball game in Valencia.
At games in three Venezuelan stadiums Thursday night, players and fans observed a minute of silence. Some held signs reading: "Free Wilson Ramos!"
Teams added green to their uniforms, some sporting a green ribbon on one shoulder, others a green "W'' for Wilson embroidered on their jerseys.
Katherine Vilera, a spokeswoman for Ramos' Venezuelan team the Aragua Tigres, posted a message Friday morning on Twitter saying: "The kidnappers haven't made contact. All that's left is to be patient, pray and have faith."
A total of 87 Venezuelan played in Major League Baseball during at least part of the last season, and some return in the offseason to play with Venezuelan teams.
Security has increasingly become a concern for Venezuelan players and their families as a rising wave of kidnappings has hit the wealthy as well as the middle class.
Bodyguards typically shadow major leaguers when they return to their homeland to play in the winter league, though it was unclear what precautions if any Ramos was taking while at his family's home.
Major League Baseball officials said it's the first kidnapping of a major leaguer they can recall.
Ramos' agent Gustavo Marcano said the catcher, who had returned to Venezuela after his rookie season, was just outside the front door of house with his father and two brothers when the SUV approached with four men inside, three of whom got out and seized the player.
Polls consistently show rampant crime as Venezuelans' top concern. The country has one of the highest murder rates in Latin America, and the vast majority of crimes go unsolved by authorities.
Venezuelans tend to blame societal and bureaucratic failures for the crime problem, which existed long before Chavez was elected in 1998. Still, Ramos' kidnapping could become a political issue for Chavez, who is up for re-election in October 2012.
The country's opposition coalition said in a statement that Ramos' abduction is another sign of Venezuela's unchecked violence, adding that the underlying cause is "this government's negligence."
Chavez's government has created a new national police force and in 2009 passed a revised law that stiffened prison sentences for kidnapping.
Even so, the number of kidnappings has soared in recent years. In 1998, just 52 kidnappings were reported. Last year, police said there were 618 kidnappings reported in 2009.
Cedeno's organization cites other figures showing there were 895 abductions reported in 2010. He and other security experts say the real number of cases is actually much higher because many abductions are never reported to authorities.
Relatives of several Venezuelan major leaguers have previously been kidnapped, and in two cases have been killed.
In 2009, the mother of former major league pitcher Victor Zambrano was rescued in a commando-style operation three days after she was abducted. A cousin of Zambrano had been kidnapped a few days earlier, and was later killed.
Colorado Rockies catcher Yorvit Torrealba's 11-year-old son and brother-in-law were kidnapped in 2009 and released a day later.
A brother of Venezuelan catcher Henry Blanco, who now plays for the Arizona Diamondbacks, was kidnapped and killed in 2008.
The mother of two-time All-Star pitcher Ugueth Urbina spent more than five months in captivity until she was rescued in early 2005.
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AP Sports Writer Ron Blum in New York contributed to this report.
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Meeting new friends can be tough, often because you have the daunting task of conveying interest without conveying too much interest. So how do you ask a person out on a friend date without it being too awkward? We asked for advice, and here's what we learned. 
Before we get started, let's define this situation a little bit. Sometimes you find yourself waiting in a long line for coffee, a movie, or an ice cream sandwich and you end up talking to a cool guy or girl. You think, hey, I'd like to be friends with this person. You also think that might be a little strange since you've had a conversation for maybe 10 minutes with a complete stranger. Nonetheless, you like this person and you think you'd like to have them as a friend. You decide to ask them out on a friend date. But what do you say? That's what we're dealing with in this post.
Roger suggests you should "[a]void comments like, 'you seem pretty cool, we should hang out' unless you really just hit it off with the person. Such comments can weird people out.? By keeping it about something else (e.g. not them but about a shared interest), you avoid them becoming defensive." Suggesting a common activity makes it easier for the person to be honest. Rejecting an activity is considerably easier than rejecting a person.
If your new friend says yes, the burden is on you to plan your upcoming friend date (unless you've decided to go the Facebook route and take it slow). Chances are you decided you liked this person because of a common interest, so figuring out what to do shouldn't be difficult. Find an activity that relates to what you talked about, suggest it, and do it. If you don't have that kind of information, you can always just grab lunch and get to know each other a little better. The awkward part is over and they like you enough to hang out, so you simply need to consider them one of your friends.
In the event you get a no you have to accept the fact that you just turned a pleasant conversation into something that's pretty awkward. If you're stuck in the same place together that conversation is likely going to stop and a cloud of discomfort will suddenly seem to form around the two of you. The best thing you can do when you hear that unpleasant no is say something like, "No worries, it was nice meeting you" and just move on with your day. Rejection isn't fun, especially when things seem to be going well, but it happens. If you can handle it gracefully you're making the best out of a bad situation.
